How?

If you want to go first (and cum first!), sit on a low surface that allows you to lie back — like an ottoman or a fitness ball. Position yourself so your bum is on the edge of your seat, and your feet are wide apart on the floor in front of you.

Lean back, placing your hands flat on the floor behind you to prop yourself up. Now it’s time for your partner to kneel in front of you and enjoy your gift to them: the saucy stocking filler between your legs. This position is perfect for treating those balls to a good ol’ jingle, as well as for oral sex and anal play.

Why?

This position celebrates one of the most overlooked erogenous zones – the balls – and makes it easy for your lover to tease and caress them.

With your legs spread wide, they can use their mouth to fondle and gently suck on your testicles, as well as using their hands, tongue or toys too if they want. Of course, there’s plenty of room to stroke your member or stimulate your anus at the same time.

Don’t have testicles? Those with a vulva can have just as much fun using jiggle balls. Once inserted, these subtle toys tingle the nerve-endings inside you and get you wet as anything.

Plus, they have free-moving balls inside them, creating a unique jingling sensation as you move – or when gently jiggled by your partner using the attached cord.

Try

With so many erogenous areas on show, why not tease your lover by stimulating one, then two, then all three at once? Slowly building stimulation like this can lead to even more intense orgasms – and who doesn’t want those for Christmas?

For partners with a penis

Start by focusing on the balls, getting them turned on with kisses and strokes. Trace a bullet vibe around the balls and perineum and, when your partner's getting hard, stroke the vibe along the shaft of their penis.

Next, give them an indulgently slow blow job while you keep stroking their balls with the other hand. If they’re comfortable with anal play, let your fingers move past the scrotum to gently caress their perineum and anus.

For partners with a vulva

Follow the same steps as above, but focusing on their thighs, perineum, and outer labia instead of the balls. Then, tease the inner labia with gentle licks to start your deliciously slow and sensual oral sex. When they’re really aroused, slip two lubed fingers into their vulva to massage their G-spot.

Make it even easier

Instead of propping yourself up on an ottoman or exercise ball, you can simply lie back on a bed or stay seated in your mobility chair. Your partner can still kneel in front of you and get jingling.

If kneeling on the floor would be hard on the giver’s knees, place a couple of pillows on the floor for extra comfort.

Make it even better

Before you get started: make sure you’ve discussed what each of you are comfortable with and what you’d rather not try, so you can both relax and enjoy the festive fun.

For an extra thrill, try a ball stretcher (you’ll need plenty of lube to slip it on comfortably). The constricted sensation keeps the blood pulsing in those sensitive areas, making everything feel even more intense.

Lovers without balls can still get all trussed up with a nipple or clit clamps for spine-tingling pleasure.

And if your partner’s keen to try anal play, lube up a string of anal beads or a butt plug. Once you’ve teased their anus with a lubed-up finger for a little while, slip in the beads or plug. Leave the toy in as you return to oral sex or spend more time worshipping those testicles.

Bring your partner to the edge with all this slow, slippery oral, and carefully slide out the beads or butt plug just as they climax. Now, that’s an orgasm they won’t forget in a hurry.